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Blogging When You Can't Be Bothered

Wednesday, 1 June 2016

I love my little piece of the Internet.  But there are still times when blogging seems like just one more thing to do in an already crowded life.

Whilst the consultation process was going on at work, there wasn't really a lot of headspace left for blogging.  So I left it and did what I could, when I felt like it.  Now the consultation process is over, it's time to pick up the pieces and get back into the blog again.

Coffee and Cake


Here are some things that helped me keep on keeping on:
  • Remember, it's not just me.  Everyone gets tired of blogging at some point or life just gets in the way.  No point in getting worked up about it.
  • Seek out inspiration by reading other things and sharing some love.  Or I could go for a walk, meet a friend, hang out with my family.  I could ask them for some suggestions for things to blog about.  Although whenever I've asked Rev T and the Tubblet, the usual response is not us!  
  • Quality over quantity.  Every blogger aims for All killer, no filler".  But I don't have an unlimited number of ideas or time for blogging.  I'd sooner write a few great posts than lots of not so good ones.  The blogger next door may be posting brilliant content seven days a week, running a fabulous online magazine and making amazing videos! They're a marvel and deserves some love.  But I don't need to be like them.  (And I don't want too!)
  • Be realistic about what I can do with my limited resources.  
  • Plan my content as this helps me make the best use of my time.  
  • Focus on the next post I have to get out helps stop me getting overwhelmed.  Get that done, then move onto the next one!  It's easy to get overwhelmed by the content calendar.
  • Just write something.  If I manage to write something, even if takes ages, it helps me write the next thing.  
  • Do something new.  I just haven't quite worked out what yet.  But even if it's a small things like finding a new subject to write about, changing some colours or tweaking a font, it makes a difference!  
  • Restructure.  When I started blogging, I tried to post everyday. It was fun, but became overwhelming.  I'm experimenting with my schedule and the amount of Linkys I do keep a blog-life balance.
  • Back to basics.  Remind myself why I decided to start blogging in the  first place - to have fun, meet new people and to occasionally talk about lipstick, coffee and Lego.  To nurture the joy and keep it fun.  
And, most importantly:
  • Do something else.  There's family to hang out with, the house does not clean itself and there are books to read.  I'll do those for a bit. The blog will still be there when I get back.  And it's not like there aren't loads of other great blogs to read.  (No names as you're all my favourites).  
Got any tips for keeping your blogging mojo or getting it back?


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42 comments

  1. Blabbermama1 June 2016 at 10:53

    This is so very true, I've read how other bloggers get really bogged down in blogging and get really stressed when they can't meet their own self imposed blogging rules. I'm pretty new at all this blogging game but I just try to remember that I need to live my life to be able to make good content or else I'll not have anything to write about! #bloggerclubuk

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    1. Tubbs1 June 2016 at 14:14

      True that! If you're not living a life and having fun, then there is nothing much to blog about at all. :)

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  2. Anonymous1 June 2016 at 11:12

    Luckily I've been inspired by bloggers I've discovered via linkies so I got out of my "blogged down" situation. Whenever I need ideas I just browse around and see what others are writing about. I then consider what I could write about that differs from the other many bloggers out there. #BloggerClubUK

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    1. Tubbs1 June 2016 at 14:14

      That's a great approach as even if the subject is a popular one, no one will write about it quite like you!

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  3. Nadia - Scandi Mummy1 June 2016 at 11:35

    These are great tips. I find that reading other blogs and often leaving a comment helps me with ideas for new blogs, as I'll write something in the comments that will inspire a longer post. Thank for sharing #bestandworst

    Nadia - ScandiMummy x

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    1. Tubbs1 June 2016 at 14:15

      That's true :) Some great ideas are sparked by other people's posts :)

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  4. Sarah1 June 2016 at 14:30

    I'm such a newbie that I never seem to run out of ideas...but whether they are any good or not is yet to be established!! #BloggerClubUK

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    1. Tubbs5 June 2016 at 21:47

      I'm sure they're fine! But you do feel very vulnerable when blogging as it involves putting yourself out there.

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  5. Unknown1 June 2016 at 16:43

    Yup creativity needs fresh air and space - not flogging a dead horse. My tip - find another blogger and challenge each other to write something, anything, and compare notes two/three days later. #BloggerClubUK

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    1. Tubbs5 June 2016 at 21:48

      That sounds a really idea. Thank you

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  6. Min1 June 2016 at 22:36

    I think we all feel this way sometimes. I definitely do. I wish all we had to do to blog successfully was write-it's the other stuff that I get bogged down in. I'm doing some linky commenting now (hence on here writing this!) and am having to be sadly ruthless with which posts I read as I just can't get round all the ones I'd like to and still have time to write my own! Nothing wrong with taking a break occasionally though. #BloggerClubUK

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    1. Tubbs5 June 2016 at 21:48

      I know that feeling. Which is why I'm doing this on a Sunday night! Sometimes there's just so much to do!

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  7. Debbie2 June 2016 at 10:46

    Hi Mrs Tubbs, I doubt there's a blogger who hasn't had to take a step back every once in a while and like you said, the blogging world is always there when you come back. I think your advice to focus on one post at a time is perfect, I find it's the only way I can blog. I have blog post ideas drafted but no posts.

    I have resigned myself that in the height of the summer I won't be able to blog as much as I would like, it happens every year, but in a way I'm sure it does me good.

    xx

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    1. Tubbs5 June 2016 at 21:50

      I was thinking of doing a little less this summer as well as I wanted to enjoy the family :) Thank you for the lovely comment. It's good to know that it's not just me!

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  8. Unknown2 June 2016 at 10:58

    your right, blogging shouldn't place of your actual day to day stuff, it should be an added extra bit of fun... there are days when I can barely look at my laptop and others where I am less busy and can spend hours reading blogs.. its just about finding balance, and what works for you. If you write good pieces, people will read them regardless :) #stayclassy

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    1. Tubbs5 June 2016 at 21:51

      True and it's lovely to find I'm not alone. Thank you :)

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  9. Anonymous2 June 2016 at 13:54

    Very true. The last thing I want is for my blog to become a chore. Quality over quantity is definitely the best way forward. #BloggerClubUK

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    1. Tubbs5 June 2016 at 21:52

      Yay! Thank you :)

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  10. jessica Harvey2 June 2016 at 14:58

    this is so true I got myself in the mind-set that I needed to post everyday and would stress if I hadn't but like you say quality is better than quantity !! #stayclassy

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    1. Tubbs5 June 2016 at 21:52

      True. It's finding that balance I think

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  11. Fran Back With A Bump2 June 2016 at 15:40

    This is a good post and I sometimes question my blogging and get a bit disillusioned. I think all bloggers probably go through that wilderness stage! #stayclassy

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    1. Tubbs5 June 2016 at 21:53

      We all do I think. Blogging does make you vulnerable as you're putting yourself out there. Thank you for the lovely comment

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  12. sothisismemrst2 June 2016 at 17:15

    hiya I had a break from blogging over the bank holiday really refreshed me and I was back on board after a few days off x #stayclassy

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    1. Tubbs5 June 2016 at 21:53

      Hope you enjoyed the break and thank you for commenting

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  13. Mrs Helicopter Writes2 June 2016 at 18:14

    Yes! Just coming out of my own blog slump and completely agree that writing is key. Even if it's just some rubbish...you don't have to press publish. It just starts the process doesn't it? #StayClassy

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    1. Tubbs5 June 2016 at 21:54

      It does and sometimes that's all you need. Thank you for commenting

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  14. Squirmy Popple2 June 2016 at 19:49

    I had a blogging slump recently where I just had no good ideas - the only thing that worked for me was to keep writing, even though I didn't publish most of it. It's still practice, right? And the more you practice your writing, the better you get at it. #StayClassy

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    1. Tubbs5 June 2016 at 21:55

      Hopefully! I'm sure that's true as I look back on my early posts and the later ones seem better to me. Thank you for commenting and have a great week

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  15. The Queen of Collage3 June 2016 at 16:39

    Blogging every day can be really hard I get that but having themed days/linkys can really help. The most important thing is to love what you do and enjoy the ride. #SHAREWITHME

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    1. Tubbs5 June 2016 at 21:55

      It is! If you're enjoying it, that's the half the battle :)

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  16. Unknown3 June 2016 at 17:33

    The WordPress daily writing prompts are a good kick for me. I've been quiet on blogs and linkies for most of the week but the #SandsAwarenessMonth campaign pushed me to write about something that means a lot to me. First draft was under an hour compared to my usual research intensive ones!

    #BestAndWorst

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    1. Tubbs5 June 2016 at 21:57

      Those sound great. Off to investigate now ... Thank you. Good luck with #SandsAwarenessMonth as I'm sure it'll be hard even though it's important work and good to raise awareness

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  17. Mummy Fever4 June 2016 at 09:00

    Great tips and thank you for sharing these. So far my problem is more time than what to write. Too many ideas and not enough time. Thanks for linking to #sharewithme - hope to see you again.

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    1. Tubbs5 June 2016 at 21:57

      Thank you for taking over hosting duties! Good luck with it

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  18. Cuddle Fairy7 June 2016 at 10:26

    Yes I nodded along with all of your points! I think taking a break is a great thing to do or skip a post on a busy week. If I'm really overwhelmed I'll go over my schedule & change it as need be. I don't want blogging to become a chore so I try to keep it as something I enjoy doing as much as possible. I hope you get your mojo back soon. Thanks so much for linking up with us at #BloggerClubUK

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    1. Tubbs13 June 2016 at 12:16

      It's coming back slowly, but there's so much else going on it's hard to stay focused sometimes! Thank you for hosting :)

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  19. SARAH ASLETT7 June 2016 at 10:58

    Quality over quantity! I would rather read one great post occasionally then suffer through five posts written under duress. I go through dips with my blog, I just take a week off. Happy blogging #stayclassy

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    1. Tubbs13 June 2016 at 12:17

      Same here! Thank you fo rcommenting

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  20. Helen - Blogging Beautifully7 June 2016 at 15:52

    Some great tips, sometimes it can be so hard to get the motivation can't it. I just have a sit back, have a couple of days off and hope that I get my mojo back! Thanks for linking up #bestandworst

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    1. Tubbs13 June 2016 at 12:17

      Same here! Thank you for hosting each week :)

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  21. jeremy@thirstydaddy8 June 2016 at 16:59

    welcome back. I'd add that finding something to write about that you care about, that really interests you, makes the whole process a lot more fun, as opposed to writing what you think others want to read

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    1. Tubbs13 June 2016 at 12:18

      So true! I'm definitely trying to do that. Keeps it interesting and original :)

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